Second rough night for your effortless success

Connecting with our inner voice, our inner guidance, our intuition

Sibylle Chaudhuri

25th December 2020

The 12 rough nights between 25th December and 6th of January are 

energetically assigned to the twelve months of the new year. The second rough night symbolises the month of February. We are approaching spring and the days getting longer. Some traditions are celebrating this in February, e.g. the Christian church with the Candlemas or Imbolic in the Celtic tradition. 


The rough nights are a time of peace and retrospective, the time to reflect and predict the new year. Those nights hold a certain magic, a special energy that can support us in finding out, who we are and what we want.



Over the last 3 days we have prepared ourselves for the rough nights and created a solid foundation for our success. Now, we will learn to trust our inner knowledge, our inner guidance, our intuition. This will support us to make the right decisions, to know and trust your strengths and abilities. We strengthen our self-worth and are confident in what we do.



Pic from Okan Caliksan on Pixabay
Pic from Okan Caliksan on Pixabay

This is what the second rough night is all about; to get in contact with your emotions, needs, desires, wishes and dreams again, our inner guidance. We can do so when we start to think less and feel more. Open up, become still, listen into yourself, and listen to your heart. This is the key to your inner guidance.


Be patient with yourself, you can do it, trust yourself. Give it a try.




The following questions can help you to develop this ability:
  • What does it meant to me to be in balance and to be content?
  • Which questions do I want answers for?
  • What does the silence want to tell me?
  • What do I still want to let go of, or who do I still want to forgive?
  • What are my emotions telling me? (What needs want to be fulfilled? Be nicer to myself, have compassion with myself, accept and love myself the way I am, etc.)
  • Which sensations do I notice when I listen to my body?
  • What does my body want to tell me? (maybe I need to rest a little bit more, take it easy, do more exercises, eat healthier, etc.)
  • Who and what will support me in the new year? Which resources do I have? (It is not always important to know how to do something, but to know who to ask for help, e.g. familiy, friends, nature, spirit animals, etc.).


Your rituals for the second rough night

Pic from Kathy Büscher on Pixabay
Pic from Kathy Büscher on Pixabay

#1 Meditation


#2 Visualisation: visualise your perfect day: Where are you? What do you do? Who is with you? What do you hear, see, feel, smell, etc.? Make it as vivid as possible. Write it down. Make a vision board. Find a symbol for this perfekt day and place it somewhere you can see it. 


#3 Become still and concentrate on your heartbeat, slow down your breathing. When you are calm, concentrate on what it is that you want to create next year. Then ask, “What is going to be my spirit animal to help me to create my success?” The first animal that comes into your mind is your power animal. Do not doubt it. Research on the internet what this spirit or power animal stands for and see if it seems right.


The next rough night can support you with your new beginning, your departure.


Until then be well.







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