7th rough night for effortless success 2021

31st December – July

Discover your heart wishes

Sibylle Chaudhuri

30th December 2020



The seventh rough night, New Year’s Eve, is energetically assigned to the month of July. Summer in the northern hemisphere has just started and the days are already getting shorter. The sun is withdrawing, and so are we invited to retreat into ourself, to contemplate. We are challenged to find our heart wishes.



Heart wishes guide you effortlessly to your heart goals

We often set goals and do things because it is expected from us. We think that by doing so we please someone, do them a favour, or impress them, we want to be liked. And, often, we do not know, who we are, where we come from, what our calling is, what makes our heart shine. Thus, we allow others to decide over us, we hand over our control, our power to others. This way, we will never be successful. Everything feels heavy and senseless.


Picture from S. Hermann & F. Richter on Pixabay
Picture from S. Hermann & F. Richter on Pixabay

Only by setting your own goals, planning and doing what you really wish from all your heart, what is your calling, what is aligned with your values, what is your passion, what you always wanted to do, only then will you have effortless success. Only then you cannot wait to get going, you are highly motivated – you have motive. Then, nothing will stop you, no setback, hurdle or challenges. You will just keep going until you have reached your goal. You will automatically find your way and people will come out of the blue to support you. Everything runs its course.


Alright, let’s find out who you really are so you can make your heart sing again and follow it.


Now, ask yourself

  • Am I able and want to express my emotions?
  • Do I listen to my inner voice?
  • Am I able to hear my inner voice at all?
  • Do I take good care of myself?


Are you ready to do all the above from now on? Then decide consciously to get to know yourself, now, and to listen to your inner voice.



Who are you?

Picture from Jill Wellington on Pixabay
Picture from Jill Wellington on Pixabay

The seventh rough night is themed, “I am”.

  • Your true being
  • Your uniqueness


How do you figure it out?

You connect with your sensitive, your female side, AKA your inner child. Meditate and wait what emotions are coming up. Then ask yourself which unfulfilled need is underlying the emotion?


Then ask yourself

  • What do I like doing?
  • What comes easy to you?
  • What is good for me and what not?
  • What did I like doing as a child?
  • What did I always wanted to do? Who did I always wanted to be?
  • What gives me security from the inside?
  • How can I pamper myself?


Get to know you better, take good care of yourself, give yourself your own compassion and love.


That also includes, to close some chapters and let go of everything that still occupies you and you prefer to leave behind in 2020.


What are your 2021 heart wishes?

Picture from Kranich17 on Pixabay
Picture from Kranich17 on Pixabay


The following questions can help you to figure out your heart wishes for 2021:

  • Where do I want to go?
  • What goals am I crazy about?
  • What is my vision for 2021?
  • What do I want to achieve in the New Year?
  • What puts a smile on my face?
  • What makes sense to me?
  • What satisfies me and my heart?
  • What do I want to pursue and achieve with all my heart?


Your todays rituals could be once more:

  • Take a bath and rinse all the old.
  • Smoke clean your home and office.
  • Wear red underwear for good luck and power in the New Year.
  • Ask archangel Muriel to show you how to find yourself, follow your heart and to do your own thing. S/he is in charge of sensitivity and inner peace. S/he brings light into your life, helps us with our fantasy and creativity.
  • Burn one of your 13 wishes.


Picture from S. Hermann & F. Richter on Pixabay
Picture from S. Hermann & F. Richter on Pixabay

Albeit the outer circumstances I wish you a merry and peaceful New Year’s Eve.


Concentrate on all the good and beautiful things in your life and all the good, beautiful and positive things 2021 has in store for you and will offer you.



Look forward to the fulfillment of your heart wishes and goals. Trust and believe in yourself.


Until next year, be well.







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