7th rough night for effortless success

31st December – July

Discovering our goals of heart

Sibylle Chaudhuri

30th December 2021


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The seventh rough night, New Year’s Eve, is energetically assigned to the month of July. Summer in the northern hemisphere has just started and the days are already getting shorter. The sun is withdrawing, and so are we invited to retreat into ourselves, to contemplate. We are challenged to find out our heartfelt wishes. 


Heartfelt wishes guide us effortlessly to our goals of heart

We often set goals and do things because it is expected from us, because we want to appeal to others. We think that by doing so we please someone, do them a favour, or impress them, we want to be accepted and loved. And, in doing so we lose ourselves. Often, we do not even know, who we are, where we come from, what our calling is, what makes our heart sing and shine. Thus, we allow others to decide over us, we hand over our control, our power to others. This way, we will never be successful. Everything feels heavy and senseless.


Picture from S. Hermann & F. Richter on Pixabay
Picture from S. Hermann & F. Richter on Pixabay

Only by setting our own goals, planning, and doing what we really wish from all your heart, what is our calling, what is aligned with our values, what is our passion, what we always wanted to do, we will experience effortless success. We cannot wait to get going, we are highly motivated – we have motive. We do not allow setbacks, hurdles, or challenges to stop us. Wie will just keep going until we have reached our goal. We will automatically find the right way and people will come out of the blue to support us. Everything runs its course. And - most importantly, we have fun.


Alright, let’s find out who we really are, and we really want, and we will be able to make our heart sing and shine again and follow it.


Now, ask yourself

  • Am I able and want to express my emotions?
  • Do I listen to my inner voice?
  • Am I able to hear my inner voice at all?
  • Do I take good care of myself?


Are you ready to do all the above? Then decide consciously to get to know yourself from now on, and to listen to your inner voice.


Who are you?

Picture from Jill Wellington on Pixabay
Picture from Jill Wellington on Pixabay


The seventh rough night is themed, I am”.

  • Your true being
  • Your uniqueness


How do we figure it out?

We connect with our sensitive, our female side, AKA our inner child. It’s our emotions, which we have discussed yesterday. In case you missed the article you can read it here


By continuing to listen to ourselves and pay attention to the emotions rising to the surface, when we accept them, ask ourselves which unmet needs are behind them and take care of them, we can connect with our inner child better and better. It will help us, to find ourselves again and be our true selves.


Then ask yourself

  • What do I like doing?
  • What comes easy to you?
  • What is good for me and what not?
  • What did I like doing as a child?
  • What did I always wanted to do? Who did I always wanted to be?
  • What gives me security from the inside?
  • How can I pamper myself?


Get to know you better, take good care of yourself, give yourself your own compassion and love.



Now, it is about time to find out and set our goals of the heart.



What are your goals of heart?

Picture from Kranich17 on Pixabay
Picture from Kranich17 on Pixabay


The following questions can help us to figure out our goals of heart:

  • Where do I want to go?
  • What goals am I crazy about?
  • What is my vision for the future?
  • What do I want to achieve in the New Year?
  • What puts a smile on my face?
  • What makes sense to me?
  • What satisfies me and my heart?
  • What do I want to pursue and achieve with all my heart?


Your todays’ rituals could be once more:

  • Take a bath and rinse off everything old.
  • Smoke clean your home and office.
  • Wear red underwear for good luck and power in the New Year.
  • Ask archangel Muriel to show you how to find yourself, follow your heart and to do your own thing. S/he is in charge of sensitivity and inner peace. S/he brings light into your life, helps us with our fantasy and creativity.
  • Burn one of your 13 wishes.


Picture from S. Hermann & F. Richter on Pixabay
Picture from S. Hermann & F. Richter on Pixabay

Albeit the outer circumstances I wish you a merry and peaceful New Year’s Eve. 


Concentrate on all the good and beautiful things in your life and all the good, beautiful, and positive things the future has in store for you and will offer you. Look forward to the fulfillment of your heartfelt wishes and goals of the heart. Trust and believe in yourself.


Until next year, be well, have a Happy New Year, and stay healthy.






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