9th rough night for effortless success in 2021

2nd January – September

Patience, gratitude, abundance

Sibylle Chaudhuri

2nd January 2021


Time for your soul


The ninth rough night is aligned with September. The month between summer and autumn. There are still warm days ahead and cooler and rainy days start showing up more regularly. The days not being really long anymore but also not very short. It is a time of transition, an in-between time, as is the time at the beginning of the year for our soul. The beginning of the year wants us to direct your focus more and more on the outside again and to look ahead. However, energetically we are still in winter and the old year is in post-pulse oscillation. Those transition times are times to pause and to re-connect with our inner middle, to collect ideas and become creative.


Your soul still oscillates between the old and the New Year. She more peace and quiet to tune into the energy of the new time, the new beginning.


Allow yourself to arrive in the new year, to process the parting. Maybe, there is some woefulness or even hurt and pain. Allow everything to be, feel it, you can bare it. Forgiveness can help you to ease the hurt and pain. Use today once more for forgiveness.


The following questions can help you in doing so:

  • What are my goals?
  • What do I want to achieve?
  • How can I center myself?
  • Do I allow myself to listen to my gut-feeling?
  • Who else do I want to forgive to be able to draw a line?


Practice patience


When starting your journey, you are well advised to do it in your own pace and your own time; then you will safely arrive at your goal.


When we have decided to fulfill our dream, our wish, an idea; when we have set a goal, we cannot just start running immediately and implement everything at once. This would be blind activism. We need time to orientate and structure ourself and plan our journey.


Practice patience. I am sure you know the saying, “Haste makes waste.” Everything takes its time to grow and ripen. Sometimes, we even need to take a step back in order to get a better look at our project and then choose the right pass.


Also, falling down and getting up again is part of the growth process.


Pause now and then, take a rest and breathe deeply. Be patient with yourself and ask yourself:

  • Am I well?
  • What do I need to be well?
  • What do I need to be healthy?



Visualise your goal again and again as if you have achieved it already and make it as vivid as possible. What do you see, hear, taste, feel? Where are you, what do you do, who is with you?


Be grateful

Picture from Oberholster Venita on Pixabay
Picture from Oberholster Venita on Pixabay

September is a month of wealth. It is harvest season, it is time of Thanksgiving and we bless mother earth.


Gratitude; by concentrating on what we have we can move from a feeling of deficiency to one of abundance – we increase our energy levels.


Go through your gratitude list that you wrote last year and add to it.


Go out into nature as often as possible and concentrate on everything that’s green, breathe deeply in and out, slow down and be well.







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