Sibylle Chaudhuri

28th December 2021

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The fifth stage of your journey together through the rough nights takes us energetically into the merry month of May. May is the embodiment of spring, when nature flourishes, when it finally gets warmer and the sun draws the humans and animals out into the open.

The month of May as well as the fifth rough night are dedicated to the topics of friendship and love. The 5^through night represents most of all the love for ourselves. When we are our own best friend, always have our own back, when we come to terms with ourselves, and when we accept, respect, and love ourselves the way we are, others will do so as well. We can build strong and special relationship with ourselves as well as others. We trust ourselves and our skills and talents, and others will do too.

We usually experience criticism, rejection, and judgement because we do this to ourselves. We are mean to us, we beat ourselves up over nothing, do not like our body, and compare ourselves constantly with others. We then decide that we are not intelligent, slim, beautiful, young, successful enough, etc. Even the strongest person cannot stand this without suffering damages.

Let’s start with todays’ questions

• Who do I like to be with?
• Who would I like to spend more time with?
• With whom do I have no chemistry?
• Am I able to change something about it and do I want to do so? If yes, what could it be?
• Which relationship do I want to improve?
• Which relationship do I want to end? No resentment, I wish them well and let go of them.
• Why do I like spend time with my friends? 
• What do I love about my friends?
• What do others appreciate about me and my company?
• What am I good at?
• What are my strengths?
• What do I like about me, my body, my character, my behaviour?
• What is really important in my life?
• What am I proud of?
• What Do I want to forgive myself for? Maybe for being too hard on myself?
• Which compliment can I give myself today?
• What have I achieved this year?
• Which mistakes did you make and what did I learn from it?
• What made you angry and/or sad and why?
• What made you happy and why?

... and some ...

To-Dos

#1 Talk to the people in your life who mean something to you and tell them what it is.

#2 Go out into nature and go for a walk all by yourself.

Yours,

Sibylle

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